Advantages of being single

Have you ever thought being single is a gift? 

If yes, welcome to the club!

If not, just read till the end.

What do you think first whenever you hear the word “Love”?

Some people think that love is sweet, enjoyable, addictive and a must for all kinds of species in the world.

Some complain that love means harm; oneself or to others. Love is complicated. Love makes trouble and love hurts. 

So what is right and what is wrong?

How about loving oneself other than loving others? 

Well, today I’m going to tell you why loving oneself is better than being in love with someone. 

1.Having time galore to do whatever you want

You can do whatever and whenever you want to. As a single, you don’t need to get permission from your partner since you don’t have one, and it’s a gift of freedom from god. You can make as many friends as you want and use as much time as you want to follow your dreams. You can use all of your time making your different hobbies. After reading this paragraph, have you felt like a little bird soaring into the sky? Yes, that is freedom that can only be available to single people.

2.Travelling alone

Do you have a dream about traveling around the world? What if you are in a relationship and your partner doesn’t like travelling? It would be a nightmare. If you are single, whether or not going around the world is your own decision and you don’t have to negotiate to follow your dreams with your partner. Freedom again!

Then, write down several places on your bucket list, singles! Now!

3. You are not under someone’s control

If you are single, you don’t have to consider someone’s opinion and you are free to do whatever you want. Are you a person who is annoyed to follow the orders and restrictions?

Welcome to the club again. We are born to feel freedom.

4.Ability to make self decision

For example: if you are going shopping and you like something in the mall, you choose it. You don’t have to double think on that product if your partner would like it or not. Because you are single. 

5.Time galore for friends and family

One of the best things about being single is having an abundance of time. You can spend most of your time with your beloved friends and family. You can enjoy quality time with your friends like going on a movie date, chilling every weekend, going on short trips with them and so on. You can get family time and time to care for each family member and increase intimacy between family members.

6. All of your money for yourself

Treat yourself well.

Give a birthday present to yourself.

Go on a date with yourself and treat yourself well. Give presents on every big day and remind yourself that you are loved and you deserve that. Use all of your money for yourself and appreciate being single. 

7.Peace of mind 

You don’t have to argue about nonsense for hours if you are single. You know what I mean. Your mind will be free‌ ‌‌and at peace. There is no one to annoy you by arguing on small topics. Unnecessary arguments on small topics can give you a headache. If you are single, you don’t have to worry about that.

8.Higher self-confidence and self-esteem

If you are single, you have learned enough to struggle in your life alone. That is how you learn about independence. You are mature enough to decide what to do and what not to do. You have your own discipline and you choose your own path. That is the art of being single and shining alone.

After reading all of the above, do you think being single is a gift?

The choice is yours. I am just sharing the facts.

Peace.✌️